Nudge-Letter April 2026
You’ve seen this before
The meeting went well. All onboard. Everyone nodded.
It felt smooth—almost too smooth.
You walk out thinking: We’re aligned. This should move now.
A week later, people have moved ahead
—just in different directions.
So you call another meeting—to realign.
What’s really happening
Alignment feels like agreement.
Agreement is not the hard part. What people do next is.
People leave the room and translate what was said:
- Based on their context
- Their pressures
- Their incentives
Because people don’t execute a strategy. They execute what works for them
A Case In Point
In many teams, conflict doesn’t show up early
—it shows up late, and personal.
The HBR article, “How Management Teams Can Have a Good Fight” highlights a pattern: [Link to the article in the sidebar ->]
- Teams often agree on the surface
- But don’t surface underlying tensions early
- So disagreements turn into politics later
In one case:
- Leaders debated only a narrow set of options
- Individuals became attached to their positions
- Conflict turned personal
- One executive quit, others disengaged.
Contrast that with teams that:
- Make trade-offs explicit early
- Acknowledge different viewpoints upfront
They argue—but around the work, not with each other.
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Try This
Do a “What’s In It For Me?” round before closing any key discussion: Each person answers 3 questions:
- What do I gain if this works?
- What do I lose if this works?
- What am I tempted to protect?
What Shifts
- Surfaces hidden resistance early
- Exposes silent conflicts (speed vs perfection,
cost vs quality, etc.) - Makes trade-offs explicit instead of political
Now alignment is not forced.
It’s negotiated in the open.
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Curious as to how ECE would help?
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